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Thursday, October 9, 2008
What is the meaning of "Fetish"
I looked up the definition:
- An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
- An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
- Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
- An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.
There are so many types of "fetishes". I believe it comes in three varities:
1. media>>>obsessions over material things(like leather, rubber, latex, satin, and silk,etc.)
2. form>>> is more of an obssession over an object that turns you on.(like garter belts, knee-high boots, stilettos, sexy lingerie, nurse uniforms, school girls uniforms, etc.)
3. animate >>>an obsession that has to do with parts of the human.(hair, breast, feet, neck, abs, etc.well you get my drift.)
But than again people pretty much can turn anything into a fetish. Fetishism can go from mild to extreme. If your fetish interferes with your relationship or your life, seek the help of a professional, please before it's too late!
Here below is the most common of fetishes, well at least to me anyways:
1. Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Sexual gratification from observing the naked bodies or sexual acts of others, especially from a secret vantage point.
Perversion in which sexual gratification is obtained from the indecent exposure of one's genitals (as to a stranger)/an act of such exposure
Some to the point where they can't get off with their partner unless they were watching pornography or another couple in the act. For me I am not sure I like this one. But sometimes I do find myself loving to do the deed in public! Is that the same or not, hmmm..idk! Lets move on, shall we?
2. Braids, ponytails, pigtails
A very big fetish among men. From blondes, brunettes, redheads, to green, etc. Well maybe not green or at least not in the norm anyways. You name it, long, short, thick, curly, straight, braided, pigtails and ponytails. You men love to pull our long hair (in braids, ponytails, whichever turns you on), while we arch our back , moaning don't cha? And I believe for some women especially in this day and age, baldness is in. So men if your hair is receding, or whatever, shave it off. We are not stupid, do you really think that comb over or ponytail turn us on? Fuck No!
3.Fingernails and lipstick
Red lipstick and long, fingernails. Maybe not so much now, since we are all into that natural look, etc. But some men are still obsessed with them red luscious lips and the feeling a woman's nails running down their backs or even elsewhere.
4. Golden showers
I know , this sounds disgusting to some, but there are a lot out there that luv this and quite popular, I might add. Oh baby please urinate on me or let me relieve myself on you before we get down to the nitty gritty! Uggg...... some foreplay, huh? It usually comes in handy when you are in that dom./sub. role play. Degrading or having power over someone!
Everything from bellybuttons, tongues and nipples to eyebrows, penises, etc.
One example: There's nothing better than a pierced tongue, that feeling of a very stearn, cool object against you know where, is quite a ride in itself..nuff said!
Tattoos, yes I love those too! Of course only a few and it all depends what they are and where. Some just love it all over their bodies, now that for me is way too much.
6. Leather, rubber, vinyl, latex
Watching us woman move around in anything tight and shiny is a quite tease in itself..mouth watering site aren't we? Men love material things such as these. It's, I believe men's fixation with that "bad girl" look.
I am not sure if women is that much into that, I am sure there are some of course. For me I am more into simple things like a guy in a towel fresh out of the shower, or them sexy boxers. As far as leather goes, yes I like a leather collar on a guy! What can I say!
7. Domination and submission
Tie me up, blind folds, cuffs, floggers, etc. Oops. I am getting carried away here! Order each other around in bed like slaves, spank them, smack them, and even penetrate them with a strap-on...yes, that's right men, if you can do me back there, I want to do you too! Welcome to equality! I promise I will be gentle if you behave!Ha! Well, you get the idea.
8.Feet and hands
Men/women enjoy licking, sucking, kissing and biting feet. Some simply can't date that person if she/he has ugly feet or toes. Yuck! I myself love getting my feet rubbed, kissed and massaged...yup ecstasy! I am not too into hands, except for the usual use of them normally and of course sexually. But some are really into them. For some women they love men with big hands and feet..well ya know the meaning of that. I don't think it is true, I have seen big feet and um a very tiny ......! Size matter, folks! Of that is a fetish in itself isn't it?
Both men and women agreed that taut tummies make them somewhat stir crazy. But there are some that likes a tummy with a teensy-weensy little pot. Well to each his own, right?
The rain, the shower, the ocean, etc.. both men and women declared that they enjoyed sex best in these habitat! For me it's in the rain and add a bit of thunder and lighting and I am there baby!
Of course there lots more that I have not mentioned. Some are just sick and gross and well, illegal, etc. Those are the ones I stay away from. Anyhow, whatever your fetish is, enjoy, be safe and have lots of fun! Just don't get out of hand with it, as in anything in life I guess! Control, control, control, people.
Mwah, thanks for reading and take care.
Oh, yeah some of you out there are obsessed with us so call "ornamenals" Asian women in case ya didn't know. Hmmmm....am I a fetish to some of you out there? Why you luv us so much? Please tell me. Maybe that is another blog in itself!
So what is your fetish?? Do tell me, won't you?